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What is Alora?

Alora is a relationship coaching app for women who get anxious with one specific man. Paste his texts or tell Maureen what happened, and in seconds you get the words to send, or the honest answer: don't send anything. It runs on relationship coach Maureen Evelyn's method, and Maureen remembers his whole pattern, so you never explain him twice.

Is Alora a dating app?

No. Alora is your coach for the man you're already seeing. No matches, no profiles, no swiping. You bring him and the situation, from the first few dates to the marriage talk, and Maureen tells you what to say next, or when to say nothing at all. Read more on our about page.

Who is Maureen?

Maureen Evelyn is the relationship coach 150,000+ women follow, with advice that has reached millions. Maureen in the app is your coach built on her method. She's an AI, so she answers in seconds, with no appointment and no waitlist. She's warm and direct, like a best friend with standards.

How much does Alora cost?

Nothing to start. Alora is free to download and free to try, and you can cancel anytime. After that, a premium subscription gives you unlimited coaching. The Keeper Test and one small Secure Action a day in 30 Days of Secure stay free. The App Store and Google Play show the current price before you subscribe.

How does the screenshot feature work?

Share up to 15 screenshots of the thread with "Show me the texts." Maureen separates what he actually said from what your anxiety is adding. Then she gives you the words to send, or the reason to send nothing. No retyping and no forms, and the decision always stays yours.

Try it on the thread you're staring at.

Paste it into Alora. The words to send, or the honest answer, in seconds.

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Can Alora help if he won't commit but I want kids?

Yes. Maureen helps you name your timeline calmly, once, and gives you the words for the marriage-and-kids talk, with no pressure and no ultimatum. She remembers everything you tell her about him, so over the next weeks you can see whether his behavior is moving toward what you want. Start with our guide on what to do when he won't commit but you want kids.

Is my conversation private?

Your conversations are not sold or shared with advertisers, and you can delete your account and data in Settings. They stay linked to your account, which is how Maureen remembers him and gives you more personal advice over time. Only authorized staff and contractors who need access may read them, to give support, handle safety reports, fix problems and improve the coach, so they aren't private like a diary. For the full detail, see the Alora Privacy Policy.

What devices is Alora available on?

iPhone and Android. Get it from the Apple App Store or Google Play, where it is listed as Alora: Feel Secure In Love. On the App Store, the subtitle is Toolkit for anxious attachment. It is free to download on both, and you can start a free trial inside the app.

Is Alora good for anxious attachment?

Yes, it's built for it. Anxious attachment hits hardest the moment he goes quiet, and that's when Alora works: paste the thread, get calm, then get the words or the honest answer to send nothing. The free Keeper Test scores how he shows up, out of 100, and 30 Days of Secure gives you one small action a day toward feeling secure. See how Alora works for anxious attachment.

Can Alora help me not text him when I'm anxious?

Yes. Open Alora instead of the thread and paste the draft. Maureen talks you down first, then tells you if it's worth sending. If it is, she helps you write the short, warm version. If not, she backs you in sending nothing. Our guide on anxious attachment and texting goes further.

Is Alora therapy?

No, and that's the point. Therapy is a weekly appointment. Alora is the coach you open the second he goes quiet, with your whole history with him already in her memory. You get the right words while the text is still a draft, not at next week's session.

Next time he goes quiet,
know what to say.

Paste the thread into Alora before you reply. Questions? Email hello@alora.love.

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